Better to light a candle than curse the darkness
My friend Alan Jacobs writes in response to a piece bemoaning the fact that nobody reads Arthur Koestler anymore:
You can curse the darkness, or you can light a candle. You can lament that people donβt know the value of Arthur Koestlerβs work, or you can write an essay that seeks to call readersβ attention to his best writing. If young people today do not know of events or artists or thinkers or works that you think they would benefit from knowing, you can tell them. Thatβs one of the main things writers are for.
I am big on being a βcurious elderβ β and one way, I think, to expand the curious elder idea is to not just be curious about what young people are into, but to also share your curiosity about the world in a way that is generous but without expectation. To point out the things you think are goodβ¦ just in case somebody, maybe even somebody younger, is looking for them.
(I should note I found the Peanuts comic by looking up the origins of the phrase.)
Related: βBe the candle or the mirror that reflects it.β